Matt has been put on a project in Japan! He leaves this Saturday and the project will be finished around August 15
th. He will be gone for 3 weeks and then back for one although he is going for an extra week this time so he can be here for Shane's 1st birthday and the last week of my parents and brother's visit. The kids and I are going to go back with him May 23 and spend about 6 weeks in Tokyo. We will then come back and visit with Bill and Lauren and Bud and Jane.
Unfortunately we had to cancel Matt's surprise 30
th birthday trip. I am trying not to be too disappointed because we have been given the opportunity to see a part of the world that neither of us thought we would get to see. So, I had to tell Matt where we were going so we could get reimbursed for the plane tickets etc. Geneva, Switzerland was the destination. Oh well!
Matt will be in corporate housing, similar to what we stayed in when we first came here. Part of me wonders if we are making the right decision taking the kids there for 6 weeks, but if we do they get to see Matt, so that is really all that matters.
I know the kids really won't remember any of our time here, but I hope they will learn how to adapt to different situations, realize that there are different cultures, to celebrate the differences and not criticize, and to take opportunities that are given to you even if they seem difficult. I hope that it will make us better parents.
I am sad that I will not have the daily hands on support of Matt, but we knew there was a chance that he would travel for long periods before we moved, so I feel that I have been mentally preparing for a while now. I also have some good friends that will keep me sane!
So, Japan here we come! Good thing we like Sushi! :)